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And be sure to check on these journal as well, so people will know who she was in the past (and I understand that the past is the past and all, but she continued to do the same even after 2 years, and while she haven't trace/stole any art (or so I've seen) Take them as a grand of salt please) (and be sure to give them all of the support they need)
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I know that some people will think of this another Drama, but I really wanna get this out of my chest as much as possible.
So let get to it.
First Times meeting Cristal:(A little Disclaimer for this one as well; most of the conversation that I'll be talking about will make you believe it or not. The reason why I said this because there's going to be someone that says that this story is fake because it doesn't have any sort of proof, and while I would LOVE to show you proof, the screenshot that I've to save was deleted because my computer for some reason delete everything that I had a couple of months ago. So if you believe it or not, then at least take this as a Grand of salt (again))
about 1-2 years ago, one of my
friends
have created this group called the OC & FC group where it basically a group solely for a furry/sonic group, and He announced that a new user will be joining in and that user turns out to be Cristal. (while she was using her old account
) And when she was added, I wanted to talk to her and after sometimes talking to her, she DM me on Discord, and after that, she sent me a friend request on Skype so we can talk while she was drawing (if I remember, she was drawing a base).
After a while, things have been escalated really quickly, to the point where both of us was called each other "Babe" "Honey" Baby" "Boo", uses ALOT of Heart emojis (While she is dating
) and its get to a point where she asked me to do drawing for her and do a collab with her as well. However, during this times, my family and I was kicked out
from
our house and had to live in the Hotel, and we had to find a new home. When we DO find a new home, I really didn't have times to interact with her. After a while, she becomes more...needy. Tells me to do more drawing for her, keep telling her "I love you" and get mad whenever I don't do anything for her. And then after she got kicked out of the OC & FC Group she added me and
into a different Discord group as an attempt to replace
PurpleHeartVenus group.
After she ONLY have me and Steph joined in, She beginning to RP with Steph, and as I tried to join the RP, she either pushes me away or just flat out ignore me. After about 10-15 mins in there, I left the group knowing that I'll just be a burden. After I do leave, Cristal messages me one last time saying "This is why I never asked you out"
Overall: When I first experience with her, I was hurt, because she basically didn't care of the issues that I was dealing with, and only care about me having a lot of time talking to her (even though I don't always have times to talk to someone everyone 24/7) But this also shows how fast she can backstab you if you don't talk to her enough. (I'm also not the only issues here, but I'll get to that later)
And now that we finish with the story, let get started on my opinions.
Cristal Rudeness: Now this one has me very confused because here a thing. Cristal is basically one of those users who basically speak some kind of rudeness if you set her the wrong way. Sometimes she does it whenever someone is harassing/trolling her, and she does it whenever someone say/do something wrong to their friends as an attempt to defend them, and while that she
have
the right to defend her friends, most of the comment was unneeded for her to comment since her friend can either replies, or just delete/block their comments.
For example One day I got bored and wanted to check on
(Be sure to check her stuff, her art is SO cute) and wanted to see her Gallery, as I was scrolling down to see her favorite, I see her profile comment, and a username
that was basically asking Amy about their Art trade that they have planned month ago:
And another one where A user names
wanted to thanks
for favoriting on their art but didn't reply on the feature that She asked users to do:
Now, I understand that Cristal is just doing her friends a favor by telling these people their rule, but does she have to be RUDE about it? I mean granted that could be one of her personality since a lot of people (that I know) does a very similar thing, but this?
And we can't forget about this as well, when
heard that Cristal made a new account, so she
check
Cristal account to see how she is doing
But then got a note message from her before she blocks Steph.
In the first Screenshot; the person wanted to know if they wanted to do an Art trades with Amy, but the things that you've said was unneeded. First, you basically stated that if they continued to ask for Art trade then they'll come out annoying, and while that is somewhat true, do you think that you can be nicer about it? I mean so far I know, this is the only conversation that you talk to them and yet here you are acting childish here. If Amy wanted to say that she doesn't feel like doing an Art trades or doesn't know what they are talking about, then she has the right to do so. I understand that you wanted to help out your friend, but at a question, like they are asking, was it needed for you to add a comment that seems like a paragraph, where the only thing that Amy can say is yes, no or I don't know what you're talking about.
And if
Gman was telling the truth that Amy and
him
had this planned before, then why did you say that was not the point? If he wanted to know if he and Amy are gonna do an art Trade and if he says that they have it planned, not only that totally made your comment completely unneeded but you also insulted the person art by saying that "Your art is not as good of a quality" Where you yourself shouldn't be complain. You of all person should know that people improve throughout each time they draw something new.
And the fact that you say "not the point" Where he stated they have this planned already, you said "forget it" even though YOU MADE THE CHOICE of replies to his comment, where Amy has the right to replies and answer for herself.
in the second Screenshot; The person is trying to say thanks to Shadamy, but forgot to replies to one of her features, you went ahead saying "please reply to her featured comment" but then ending it "It's there for a reason, Thanks" Many people can read that the wrong way, and you may give these people a bad first impression.
Plus Shadamy can also tell them herself, or just hide the comment like before.
And in the Third Screenshot; Steph has stated before that since someone has leaked her account (because it's really not that hard to find her account) that he only check on her account because she wanted to know how she been doing. And if both Steph and Cristal aren't friend anymore, then why would Steph check up on her like she an old friend of her? But I think that the most important thing that thinks about, is why Cristal (a 21-year-old) thinks that Steph (An 16-year-old) that trying to start shit? From what I heard from people that also dislike Cristal is that every time She created a new account, she only blocks the people that she has an issue with. If that the case, then why would Cristal say to Steph that she trying to start shit with her?
And also, the part where she says "If you were smart, you would be wanted to apologize and work things out with me." Where it doesn't take a genius to put to pieces together. If you wanted Steph to apologize to you, then maybe if you haven't blocked her from your main account and tell her to leave you alone, and give her...idk, ANOTHER CHANCE? Maybe she would've said sorry to her and that is one less drama to worry about, but the fact that you're so quick to assume that Steph may annoy you again, without realizing that Steph has other things to worry about....like school perhaps?
Also, Her started drama? I didn't know that she going to your new account, only to get blocks and force you to make a message to her telling her to leave you alone where Steph stated that she only wanna check up with you will make Steph a drama whore. OR it could be someone trying so hard to be a victim at this point.
There is also the times where she made a status saying that she has moved but the way she phrases it just seems....What the word?
RUDE Again, I understand that if she doing this as her "personality" as I stated before, but here a thing, if she had a choice to be nice not only to most of her friends, and the people that she liked, why does she have a choice to be rude to these people where they are not even harassing the user she trying to "protect" and those users can answer those question or just hide the comment?
Maybe because I never experience these kinds of stuff before and I could be over thinking about this but doesn't anyone, if not EVERYONE like it better if someone talking/interacting was being nice and wanted to give a good first impression?
My concern with Cristal relationship(Okay Now early I've stated that I will be speaking my opinions About Cristal and Ben relationship. If you don't want me to talk about their relationship, then I recommended skipping to the next topic. If you DO read it, then please do so with an open mind.)
Now about her relationship...What can I say about it? I've already stated our "relationship" in my story about how we went out while she still going out
with :iconatlasben
: . Now many of you may not believe me due to the lack of proof, but I do have proof that she is doing the same to other people.
One dude names David (Who is part of the Sonic Sprite community) had this friend names TJ (aka :iconCoolSonicman: have been friends with Cristal awhile back, after David warning TJ about her:
causing him to block her. He then got a note and send it to him:
Now let analyze this comment real quick; She basically stated that TJ is a jerk who uses girls for sex and then block her.
Even though David hasn't been specific who is TJ and what kind of relationship both Cristal and
him
have, but She stated that Tj uses her for sex. If that was the case, then that would mean that at one point, they both agree that they wanted to do a sexual RP where Cristal has an options to do the RP or not.
And to make this worse, she also stated "to trick me into thinking you wanted to be with me" Now normally in this type of topic, whenever a woman got confessed by someone even though they have a boyfriend, and if that woman loves her boyfriend, she will friendzone that someone right? Well, she stated that he have TRICKED HER, which mean that at one point she really thought that he wanted her and she gladly accepts it, WHILE she was going out with Ben.
She also says that these two were good friends and she regrets calling him "bf" and going so far by saying that TJ isn't a BF material if this is how he treats girls. Now "BF" could mean two things, either Boyfriend or Best friend, but the way that she phrased it by saying that he isn't a BF material, and how she only mention girl beside people, could prove something else about these two.
Now this one really doesn't say much because it's basically her saying the same thing to TJ, but one sentence is interesting.
The fact that she said, "Have fun fucking her, since you lost your chance with me, bye bye." which mean that at one point, she OFFER him to be with her, but now he "lost his chance with me" WHILE still dating Ben.
And Their friend's isn't too happy about it.
Last but not least, these screenshots:
Do
Do I need to say anymore?
Cristal needs Attention and ArtIf you guys read my story, I stated that she has been telling me to do more art of her while I was in the process of moving.
And for those who STILL don't believe me (can't say that you do) Here the one where
had made a journal about her and her experience with Cristal:
But someone has sent me a BUNCH of screenshot of this dude names Kenny that basically shows Shadamy Cristal true colors:
sta.sh/21u4rojwcvedAnd now, let's talk about Ben: But now
was an interested person to talk to. But not in a good way.
You see, I really never taking him seriously, solely because of the way he talks and how he "defends" stuff. it's like every single
times
that he is in a conversation where the topic is about his girlfriend, it usually ended him not believe it.
Like one time, when I made my first rant journal against Cristal (I couldn't post it because the link wasn't supportive by DA) and I've basically mention Cristal (her two old accounts) and then Ben. Ben finally and we ended up having a short conversation, stated that she will talk to Cristal about it. (
sta.sh/22bdx12xpuqb)
Later on, someone has added me and users that was victim to Cristal into a group so we can interact with Ben himself.
He stated something about making a new account and basically interact with Cristal with our new account, I wanted to make sure that what Ben is saying is true, that we have to find more proof, but when I say that, he replies with this;
after about a day, he was in a conversation with a user (he wanted me to block his names) saying this;
And while that I and bunch of people are truly are in the wrong by making a fake account ONLY to get more proof that she is acting "flirty." The way Ben is acting seems weird. The screenshot that I've shown before (Where Cristal was talking to Punk) was the same one that Ben has been, and even though I can't remember why he was kicked, this....doesn't seem natural. including to a relationship.
Even though that he says that he will protect Cristal at the end of the day, I don't think that its natural for a Boyfriend give tips to the people that are basically catfishing his own Girlfriend, no matter what the reason.
In conclusion, allow me to give a message:
While that I won't deny the fact that I enjoy our first conversations, What you did to me and what you've been doing to a lot of people is unacceptable. Of course, I know by the fact that you'll never read this by any chance, but at the very least thing that I can do is warn you, because even though you did hurt me, you need to learn that you can't always be the victim, and you can't always protect your friend.
The reason why I think that you acting like you're ALWAYS the victim because of you never apologize to any of these screenshots that I've posted. Most of the screenshot that I've shown usually end the result that you acting like the victim, you told TJ that he is a Girl user, and you stated that you regret calling him your BF. (Still trying to find out if it mean Boyfriend or Best friend) The fact that you told
so many insults where YOU made a choice by saying that he misses his chance with you.
You have the right to leave by the moment you were having some sort of affection for these users, despite the fact that you already have a Boyfriend.
Not only that, but you're also rude. You don't know how to choose your word properly, you're also picky whenever someone doesn't have a lot of times talking to you, and let not forget about these screenshots either:
I...I really don't know what else to say besides this; You are 21 years old, you're basically an adult, but if you don't act like one sooner or later, then you will NEVER be prepared for the real world that you will have to face in the future.
and if you can't handle stuff like these and you still act like a child? Then you will learn about the real world the hard way. And trust me, you don't wanna go the hard way.
And as for
atlasben Well...I think this screenshot speak everything that I need to say.
Welp. I think I've already got everything to say.
I hope all of you have a good day, and a good weeks/weekends.
and Cristal and Ben? Grow up.
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Update:
Even though this conversation was made like about a month ago, the reason why I haven't posted it because I was busy with life (as usual)
Anyway, while I was chilling on my computer, one of people who was a victim of Cristal said that one of her close friend have just recently split apart, and So I wanted to talk to her (She also say too keep her names out of it so she won't have to be part with the drama) At first I was scared but thankfully she shown to be very cooperative. (also if you are the same person who I talked to before and want to delete this, please Let me know by noting me)
And there is another user named who have seen this journal contacted me, explain the reason why both Cristal and him split apart from friendship
and after he blocked her, about 3 week ago, he gotten a note from her:
(and noticed how she didn't apologize to him)